Sgt4succsess SMACIN GRACEFULL TEAM Why Giving Up Blame Will Bring You Peace It's understandable if you imagine blame is a reasonable response to getting hurt. We live in a society that has predominantly taught us to look outside ourselves to find what we want and apportion blame. ADVERTISEMENT However, blaming others intensifies negativity, making the situation worse. We have the power to change our thoughts and feelings, and this gives us the ability to make changes on the inside. You can't find peace if you point the finger rather than taking responsibility for your well-being.. ADVERTISEMENT When you blame people for your feelings, you give them the power to heal or damage you. Your happiness is in their hands because you don't think you can cope alone. ADVERTISEMENT You become a prisoner and victim since there's no way out of you