Sgt4succsess SMACIN GRACEFULL TEAM How to Defuse an Argument Every couple has arguments. It's a reality of intimate relationships that has existed for t housands of years, ever since human being s started to come up with words meant to hurt and insult each other. ADVERTISEMENT If you've had even one serious relationship, you've almost inevitably gotten into a few fights, and you know how bitter they can become. These fights do not necessarily have to be explosive, however. ADVERTISEMENT A minor disagreement between partners can easily turn into a huge spat because the attitudes and actions of each spur the other on. Here are a few tips that may help you and your partner avoid this kind of emotional escalation. ADVERTISEMENT 1) Take turns speaking and listening to each other Too many arguments get out of hand because each party continuou